Yesterday I was watching a danish tv-show about Saseline Sørensen (who is a danish celebrity, and a former popstar), and something that bothered me was when she worked out she started talking about her body. She started out by saying "I'm not skinny, I do have fat, but it is good fat" and that bothered me. Saseline is actually a model, and even though she has boobs and an ass, she's still skinnier than most normal women. Later she talked about how she couldn't understand women wanting to be skinny and how she thought it wasn't womanly to be thin. This bothered me so much. I can't take when people with a perfect hourglas shaped body talks about how other women are less womanly because they dont have bigger boobs and a rounder ass. I don't think anyone would be offended if I said I'm not the most curvy person in the world, and if I gained 20 kilos I still wouldn't be. My bodyshape is different and when I gain weight it doesnt go straight to my chest, it goes to my stomach. Does that make me less of a woman? I don't think so. I am just as much of a woman as Kim Kardashian, Saseline Sørensen and Marilyn Monroe, I just look how I wanna look. These things are being said to try and make more women feel good about themselves, but why do you have to say others are "wrong" to feel that you are "right"? If you have a vagina you are female, there are no such thing as being "more womanly" than anyone else. No wonder so many girls feel bad about the way they look.
So, moral of my rage here is that I hope anyone who reads this know that they don't have to look a certain way, as long as theyre healthy and feel good in their own skin! And anyone skinny ever tells you they're fat, shoving a marsbar down their throat is a perfectly fine way to shut them up x
